In September the blurry romantic picture comes into focus. Something has been bothering your significant other. Something which has him or her so preoccupied that cuddling and lovemaking have had to take second place. Be sure that you, the supportive spouse or lover, begin to make some inroads into just what it is that is bothering your sweetheart. My hunch is that your mate is overly worried about his or her health. There is a repeating symptom or constant pain somewhere on their body. And they are terrified to go to a doctor about it. Your job? Be gentle and understanding. Make certain he or she knows that you have their best interests at heart. First, urge them to see a physician. If they refuse and try to talk you out of it, make the appointment yourself and drive them there. It's probably nothing a visit to the doctor can't cure. Just being told it's indigestion and not a heart attack or cancer will ignite the spark your loved one needed to begin to feel sexy again. There are considerable indications at this time concerning a move or a shift in residence. You may be deeply involved in packing cartons and - most of all - throwing things away. We all accumulate far too much "stuff" that we don't necessarily need or use every day. Make packages for people you know who need more dishes or silverware, sheets, towels etc of which you have an excess. Or call your local non-profit charity organization which helps the poor to rehabilitate old furniture and other goods so it can be re-sold. Never chuck perfectly serviceable items into the trash. Your money situation seems solid and secure. Your joint resources with your partner are in fine fettle. In all of this hurly burly, try not to neglect your creative work. You are gifted for some artistic pursuit that you too often push aside to tend to the needs of others. Get back to your designing or painting or writing or music. Art is essential to your basic well-being. |
