Wise to continue being romantic with your love partner. It sometimes simply skips your mind that your lovers need alone time with you. As you are mostly self-driven and don't crave full time hands on smoochy tendernesses, you plumb forget to touch your significant other. Not that your lovemaking falls short. Not at all. You are a conscientious lover and often put the other person's pleasure first. But outside of bed. In the kitchen, the car or on the porch swing, give yourself over to sweet caresses, snoggles and reassuring hugs. Maintain this variety and quality of affection and your love life will vastly improve. You will be somewhat preoccupied with finances this month. You like to save your money - not squander it. You also eschew credit and would almost always prefer to pay for the things you buy - even the major things like cars and houses. There is however an opportunity coming up mid September which will shiver your monetary timbers because you want to buy it and you really don't have the money. It's a house. An older house. It's has charm and classical features no other house has. It's beautiful. In the quietest and most fashionable area of the countryside. You are in love with it. The price is negotiable. But it needs work. LOTS of work. Renovations and a new roof will cost more money you don't have. My advice? Get yourself that house. Take a loan. Investing long term in property is the surest way to secure money these days. Better than banks. You love fixing up houses. You adore decorating and planning repairs, comparing estimates from tradesmen and making decisions about configuring space for different rooms. Consult with your significant other before you buy. Be convincing. Make them know how much it means to you to look forward to ownership of such an elegant home. Someone may be looking at this house concurrently to you. Make sure you don't lose it. Negotiate the price if you must. But be fair. There's a younger person in your life now who is causing you no little anxiety. Chances are you have made multiple sacrifices for the youngster and want to keep them on track. But they don't want to be a mathematician or a pharmacist. They want to do something else - of which you don't really approve. Listen to their story. Help them implement methods to reach their goals. No use trying to mold their life into what you want it to be. It never works. Their life is theirs and yours is yours. Never the twains. |
